5 ideas to turn your back yard into a relaxing retreat

Water fountain in summer garden
(Image credit: Getty Images)

Your home should feel like a place of sanctuary, where you can work if necessary but also relax when it's time to unwind. Living in a calm space can help us all de-stress and lighten our mood, creating a healthy environment.

Apart from enjoying a calm space inside your home, you’ll also benefit by extending the vibe outside into your backyard. You can make the most of your outside space with a few clever ideas, whether you’ve got a tiny patch or a large expanse. 

Here are five ways to transform your backyard into a serene outdoor area you can enjoy throughout the year.

1. Choose a calming color palette

Mixed border with purple chives and white boreal chickweed

(Image credit: Getty Images)

Color plays a big part in creating a certain mood, so if you want to design your backyard with calmness in mind, you might need to rethink your planting, especially if you’ve inherited a backyard full of vibrant-colored plants. 

Generally, greens, blues and pastel shades are viewed as calming colors, while reds, yellows and oranges will stimulate your senses. It’s similar to creating a calming color scheme within your interior to induce relaxation. For instance, there are 5 paint colors you should never use in your bedroom as they are over-stimulating and can disrupt sleep. 

However, there’s no reason to banish bright planting in your backyard completely — you might just want to dedicate one area to softer hues. 

My favorite mix includes soft creamy white Hydrangea Annabelle and fragrant bluish-gray lavender. Other tranquil combinations can consist of pink, lilac and peach with silver foliage. 

2. A place to rest in comfort 

Garden furniture and decor

(Image credit: Shutterstock)

There’s nothing worse than venturing into your backyard for peace and quiet and finding yourself sitting in an uncomfortable seat. However beautiful and calm your backyard appears, you’ll need to be sitting comfortably to truly enjoy it.

Although a traditional hammock might not be your first choice (I’d worry about falling out) and you need a few trees to hand to support it, there are plenty of alternative options.  Home Depot has a freestanding double-seated hammock chair with cushions, which, although on the pricey side at $1,496, looks perfect for a nap. 

If you’re looking to sit back and relax in your yard for a while, you’d be best to find seating with an adjustable high back rather than low seating, which is perfectly fine for dining. Home Depot has a Plastic Rattan Swivel Outdoor Reclining Chair with light beige waterproof cushions for $263.

Coral Vista Brown Wicker Outdoor Patio Chaise Lounge: was $349 now $174 @ Home Depot

Coral Vista Brown Wicker Outdoor Patio Chaise Lounge: was $349 now $174 @ Home Depot
Lounge in luxury with this chaise lounge that is perfect for your backyard, pool or patio. The lounge is made of handwoven wicker that has a durable all-weather finish. It also comes with a cushion and customizable slipcover. 

3. Go wild 

Long tailed tit on fat feeder

(Image credit: Shutterstock)

One reason to escape into your backyard is to give yourself time to unwind away from the pressures of everyday life. Although you might be keen to spend some time alone, it can be beneficial to invite some guests into your space.

Watching birds, bees, and butterflies can bring you closer to nature while also benefiting your backyard; however, you need to know how to encourage them. 

Certain plants attract butterflies and other pollinators to your yard. Apart from coneflowers, foxgloves, lavender, nasturtiums, sedums and zinnias, there’s plenty more to choose from. So, if you want to share your space with wildlife, grab your best gardening gloves and get planting. 

Bird feeders and water baths will also attract birds to your garden, but ensure you keep your feeders topped up and refill the water if it gets low. Your visiting birds will get used to knowing where they can find food and won’t be happy if their regular snack is not there.

Hanizi Bird Teed: was $16 now $14 @ Amazon

Hanizi Bird Teed: was $16 now $14 @ Amazon
This lightweight bird feeder has a large capacity and measure 8.5x7.9x7.3 inches. Simply open the lid and place up to 47oz of the bird feed inside. The overhanging roof prevents the seeds from becoming wet, with the tray containing small leak holes to avoid water accumulation.

4. Add a water feature

A water feature in a garden

(Image credit: Shutterstock)

The sight and sound of water are instantly calming and bring an added dimension to your outside space. Bringing the tranquillity of water into your yard needn’t be difficult to achieve. In fact, a bird bath is the easiest type of feature to include as it doesn’t require a pump or filter, so you can benefit along with the birds. 

However, with a bird bath, you won’t hear the sound of water, which many people find relaxing. What you choose will also depend on the style of your backyard and whether it’s contemporary, traditional, or something in between. This Curved Swirl Sphere Water Fountain, available for $168 at Home Depot, has a slate-like appearance for a modern look. If you prefer something more rustic in appearance, you might like this 2-tiered barrel and pump water fountain, $48 at Amazon.

Alpine Corporation Rustic 2-Tiered Water Fountain: was $74 now $48 @ Amazon

Alpine Corporation Rustic 2-Tiered Water Fountain: was $74 now $48 @ Amazon
This garden water fountain will be the perfect addition to your outdoor space. Setting it up is a total breeze as all you have to do is plug it in — it includes an interior pump that keeps the water flowing. Its rustic look paired with the sound of trickling water will add a peaceful ambiance while you relax outdoors. 

5. Delight in fragrant flowers

Jasmine plant climbing on arbor

(Image credit: Shutterstock)

Many plants induce relaxation, not just from their color’s effect. Many offer beautiful scents that are calming and have therapeutic benefits — just like these indoor plants that can help you sleep at night and 7 indoor plants that will make your house smell nicer.

It’s worth planning on positioning fragrant plants where they’ll have the optimal effect — patio and seating nooks are ideal places, or by a backdoor, where you can sweep past them and enjoy the scent as you enter your yard. 

Lavender is always a top contender in the fragrant stakes, and you can learn when and how to harvest lavender to enjoy it indoors, too. Jasmine will do well climbing over a trellis or arbor in a spot with free-draining soil and full sun, where its scent will entice you, while honeysuckle will do the same and also bring in butterflies and bees. 

One of my favorites for fragrance is Salvia Microphylla, also known as blackcurrant sage. It’s described as minty and similar to blackcurrants, hence its name, although I think it smells fresh and lemony. 

More from Tom's Guide

Camilla Sharman
Staff Writer, Homes

Camilla Sharman has worked in publishing and marketing for over 30 years and has covered a wide range of sectors within the business and consumer industries both as a feature, content, and freelance writer.  

As a business journalist, Camilla has researched articles for many different sectors from the jewellery industry to finance and tech, charities, and the arts. Whatever she’s covered, she enjoys delving deep and learning the ins and out of different topics, then conveying her research within engaging content that informs the reader. In her spare time, when she’s not in her kitchen experimenting with a new recipe, you’ll find her keeping fit at the gym. In the pool, stretching at a yoga class, or on a spin bike, exercise is her escape time. She also loves the great outdoors and if she’s not pottering about in her garden, she’ll be jumping on her bike for a gentle cycle ride.  

Read more
Nerve plant houseplant
New Year, new houseplants: An expert guide on adding greenery to your home in 2025
A Steelcase Gesture office chair in a home office
5 home office layout ideas to refresh your workspace for the new year
What is active noise cancellation
How to soundproof your home office — 5 fixes for a distraction-free workday
Mixed variety of roses in bloom
7 gardening tasks you should do in February for a bountiful spring
Woman picking up clothes on the bed with a green shirt in hand
This bedroom organization tip helps you fall asleep fast and reduces anxiety — here’s how
White living room
3 tips for transforming your home office into the best guest room ever
Latest in Home
Segway g30lp
Segway recalls 220,000 electric scooters - what to do if yours is on the list
the breville dose control pro, called sage dose control pro in the uk, a silver coffee grinder with 60 grind settings and labeled grind size adjustment
The Breville Dose Control Pro is one of the most divisive coffee grinders — here’s why I disagree with the haters
the clever dripper, a brown transparent plastic manual coffee maker with a handle and a sluice feature in the bottom to keep water inside
The Clever Dripper is my new favorite way to brew coffee — and I think it’s easier than a French Press
Striped lawn
Expert reveals the kitchen waste item that can help you create a green and healthy lawn
Skelly Ultra The Home Depot Skeleton for Halloween 2025
I got an exclusive look at Home Depot's 'Skelly' refresh for Halloween 2025, and it'll turn your house into the neighborhood's hottest attraction
Washing machine in laundry room
7 laundry myths debunked by the experts
Latest in How To
a photo of a woman out for a walk
Forget running — doing this one thing boosted the calorie burn on my daily walks
Gemini logo on smartphone
Google's Gemini Deep Research is now free — I've got 7 quick tips to start using it now
ChatGPT on iPhone
I use ChatGPT every day — here's 7 prompts I can't live without
Woman changing bedding
How to get rid of bed bugs and dust mites from your bedding and pillows if a hot wash isn’t an option
Ring Battery Doorbell next to door
Hate it when your Ring doorbell alerts you all the time? Here's how to schedule motion detection
How to delete TikTok
TikTok has rolled out a vital new security feature — here's how to use it